Calling Bullsh*t

Boys, I think that calling each other’s bullsh*t is not a bad thing. In fact, I think it’s a good sign that you’re keeping yourselves honest with one another. But perhaps a few rules of engagement to keep things in order:

• If your brother calls your bullsh*t and he’s right, admit it. Don’t be afraid to lose face. You will lose your brother’s respect more if you stay on with the lie.
• If you call your brother’s bullsh*t and he admits to it, show him some respect. It takes guts to admit one’s flaws.
• After the bullsh*t has been called, make sure to patch things up right there, then hang out over a couple bottles of beer. I expect, however, that you are already at a drinking age when you read this. Otherwise, stick to the orange juice.

This letter may sound funny but I really believe that this is one of the best ways to keep yourself honest with one another and help to strengthen your bond as brothers.

Stay close, and be grateful for each other always.